25 things I have learned before 25

Today is exactly 1 month until my 25th birthday. Time has literally flown since my beloved 21st birthday party. I think 25 is the perfect age and does not even seem old to me. I have learned so much about myself and others in the last couple of years. I am hoping to either have a birthday party/dinner or go on a trip for my birthday. I know I at least want lots of gold glitter, black and white stripes and hot pink. 25 is truly the golden age for me and is something to look forward to. Below I have put together some funny and good advice I have learned before turning 25. Enjoy and please tell me your thoughts 🙂
 
25 things I have learned before 25

1.       Keep your loved ones close: Your family and friends are one of the most important people that you have. They have seen you through your worst and your best. I think it is important to always have a good relationship with these people who really care for you. It might be hard to see or talk to them at times, but keeping a connection and starting where you left off is such a great feeling.
2.       You can’t go out every night and expect to get up for work: You are not in college anymore and not going to work is not an option the next morning. The pure bliss of college was we could pick if we wanted to go to class or not. No more Thirsty Thursday every week for this girl. Even if you can wake up it will catch up to you and you will get your coworkers asking you the next day “Do you feel ok?” ….awkward
3.       Give up the grudges: If you still have a grudge with someone or are distant from someone from your past be the bigger person and make amends. Trust me with social media and everything else technical you will run into them and they could even end up being your coworker. Save the awkwardness and make amends now.
4.       Netflix and wine is always a good idea: This is more like my Thirsty Thursday. After a long week of work the thought of going out sometimes sounds miserable. I would much rather lay out on the couch watching my favorite 90’s chick flicks on repeat. #sorrynotsorry
5.       Network:I think it is very important to network within your company and without. You never know who you will meet and then potentially be working for later. It is important to have a mentor and someone who will be able to give you guidance as you go through your career as well.
6.       You should have a drink of choice by now: Long gone is the freshman girls drink of choice cherry vodka sour and keystone. By now you should know what you like and at least have a favorite type of wine.
7.       Don’t sweat the petty stuff: Back in college I remember getting stressed out and obsessing over such little stupid details like “OMG did you see the way she looked at me ahhh so rude” or just gossip in general. It’s more stress than what it’s worth and looking back I just laugh. Life is too short to stress out or worry about things that are beyond your control. If you lose your job, which your first job probably won’t be your last, don’t worry about it. There is a plan that is beyond our control.
8.       Dress for your body type: Girls, trends are fun to follow and watch but certain trends do not work on everyone. Also, if all you have in your closet are those hip hugging “bandage dresses” please revaluate your closet. You should feel comfortable and look good at the same time.
9.       Yes your parents were right: You are now at the age where you can appreciate the little things your mom and dad said which was actually good advice, instead of annoying people that didn’t know anything.
10.   Live with your girlfriends: This is the perfect time to live with your girlfriends in your 20’s. I think it is the most fun you will have and can really bond when you are older. Cooking, watching movies and just having your essential girl time. You will have your whole life to live with your soul mate later. But wait aren’t your girlfriends your soul mates anyway J
11.   Late night Whataburger will put on the pounds: I don’t know what it was when I was in college I could have a honey butter chicken biscuit, milk and french fries (I know weird combo) every night and never gain weight. Now, oh honey that honey butter chicken biscuit is going straight to your thighs if you don’t watch it.
12.   Don’t waste your time on immature/cocky/rude, etc. boys: As I have gotten older I have really determined what I want and don’t want out of a future boyfriend. Life is too short to be around someone that doesn’t treat you with respect and makes you happy. I would much rather be spending that time with my friends/family or shopping of course. The timing is always right and when you know you know. It’s not the end of the world if you are reading this and like me thought you would already be married with one on the way by this age haha.
13.   Bubble baths are the best: Yes, I love bubble baths and candles and wine. I think it is important to relax every night with scented candles and even some Enya music. Going through out our days can be so stressful and this is the perfect opportunity to de-stress.
14.   Read because you want to: Gone are the days where we had to read a boring book because we were graded on it to write an essay. Find a great book that interests you and start reading. I personally think it not only helps your brain but can be better than all of those reality TV shows too!
15.   Travel, Travel, Travel: This is the best time to go on girlfriend trips, go to a country that you have never been to before and try to explore as much as you can. This will shape you as an individual and you will be able to see so many different places that you will appreciate so much more.
16.   Save your money: If you don’t have one by now you should be starting a savings account or even better a 401K. This is one of the best advice tips. If you start now you will have a lot more when you retire then if you start in your 30’s. Even if it is just $50 a month that can add up fast.
17.   Making your first big girl purchase is a great feeling: Whether it is buying a car, house, or paying off your student loans, working hard for your money is a great feeling. You appreciate it so much more and value it’s worth.
18.   Don’t wear “shack” clothes to brunch: People will look at you and you will be “that” girl. In college it was perfectly normal to wear an oversized tee and shorts with your hair a disaster to brunch. Now, you should probably shower, change and look like your clothes cost more than your meal…
19.   Start using anti-aging products now!: It doesn’t matter if you don’t even have wrinkles, you will get them in the future. Eye cream and SPF are a necessity right now. Your skin is the most delicate and important feature that will stay with you forever. It will benefit you if you start preparing and using good quality products now.
20.   Volunteer:I think volunteering is what shapes our character and lets us show our talents and abilities to others. Volunteering because you want to and not because you have to is completely different and makes you appreciate giving back that much more.
21.   Know at least 1 recipe: I don’t cook toooo often but I think it is important to have a few recipes on hand. You never know when you will be expected to entertain or throw a dinner. Having a recipe will defiantly help you in the future. It is also fun, minus the clean up 😉
22.   Trust your gut: This goes without saying to always trust the inner voice inside of you. Sometimes you might get a great opportunity and the grass might seem greener on the other side but you have to think of the big picture. Praying and listening to yourself and weighing out everything will help 9 times out of 10.
23.   Embrace people’s differences: Learn about other cultures and try to talk and make new connections all the time. You learn so much about individuals this way. Sometimes you think you could be going through a lot, but someone else could be going through a similar situation. Everyone is unique and I think it is important to not judge these differences.
24.   Be fearless and do something you wouldn’t normally do: Whether this is picking up a new hobby or trying a new restaurant.  I think it is important to step out of your comfort zone and do something for you! You won’t know until you try!
25.   Establish a great relationship with God: I think this is the best lesson I have learned. You are no longer having your parents telling you to go to church or when to say your prayers. It is all about you and your own individual connection with God. It is through Him that we are here and are able to have all of these wonderful experiences in our 20’s. Praying throughout the day and talking and having a strong faith will help you throughout any situation. I feel that it is a sense of warmth and encouragement knowing that I have developed a good sense of faith.

 


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